Why

Why does the Daddy get to blame the Mummy for the way things have to revolve around health issues.? Why does the mummy get into trouble when she has a bad day ? why is it the mummy that gets up all night to sick children, balances appointments, does medication but the Daddy gets to blame her when he doesn't have the guts to tell his family no...

And why why why does our baby have to be so sick that when her sister is actually sick the locum dr still thinks she is the sick one when it is just her normally. Oh I need sleep.